Saturday, April 24, 2010

What I'm Reading









In this emotionally charged novel, Jodi Picoult delves beneath the surface of a small town to explore what it means to be different in our society.
In Sterling, New Hampshire, 17-year-old high school student Peter Houghton has endured years of verbal and physical abuse at the hands of classmates. His best friend, Josie Cormier, succumbed to peer pressure and now hangs out with the popular crowd that often instigates the harassment. One final incident of bullying sends Peter over the edge and leads him to commit an act of violence that forever changes the lives of Sterling’s residents.
Even those who were not inside the school that morning find their lives in an upheaval, including Alex Cormier. The superior court judge assigned to the Houghton case, Alex—whose daughter, Josie, witnessed the events that unfolded—must decide whether or not to step down. She’s torn between presiding over the biggest case of her career and knowing that doing so will cause an even wider chasm in her relationship with her emotionally fragile daughter. Josie, meanwhile, claims she can’t remember what happened in the last fatal minutes of Peter’s rampage. Or can she? And Peter’s parents, Lacy and Lewis Houghton, ceaselessly examine the past to see what they might have said or done to compel their son to such extremes. Nineteen Minutes also features the return of two of Jodi Picoult’s characters—defense attorney Jordan McAfee from The Pact and Salem Falls, and Patrick DuCharme, the intrepid detective introduced in Perfect Match.
Rich with psychological and social insight, Nineteen Minutes is a riveting, poignant, and thought-provoking novel that has at its center a haunting question. Do we ever really know someone?

I'm actually only about 1/2 way through this book, but I love it! I love how a lot of her books are written from many character's perspectives. I listen to them on cd, so it isn't as confusing as actually reading the book.



Delia Hopkins has led a charmed life. Raised in rural New Hampshire by her widowed father, Andrew, she now has a young daughter, a handsome fiancé, and her own search-and-rescue bloodhound, which she uses to find missing persons. But as she plans her wedding, she is plagued by flashbacks of a life she can’t recall. And when a policemen arrives to disclose a truth that will upend the world as she knows it, Delia must search through these memories – even when they have the potential to devastate her life, and the lives of those she loves most. Vanishing Acts is a book about the nature and power of memory; about what happens when the past we have been running from catches up to us… and what happens when the memory we thought had vanished returns as a threat.
I love Jodi Picoult. That's all I have to say. I look forward to going to work just so I can listen to my book in the car.





Twilight is told by 17-year-old Bella Swan, who moves from Phoenix to the small town of Forks, Washington, to live with her dad for the remainder of high school. There, she meets Edward Cullen and his family, who possess an other-worldly and irresistible beauty and grace to which Bella is drawn. Twilight is the tale of Bella and Edward's burgeoning relationship, brimming with standard teenage drama alongside the unexpected, because, after all, Edward and his family are vampires. These undead friends have chosen to deny their urge to drink human blood, instead slaking their thirst with the blood of animals. Bella soon finds out, however, that not all vampires in her life are constrained by such scruples.

I thought I would see what all the fuss was about, but I wasn't impressed. I liked Harry Potter, so I thought that maybe I would like this, even though I am obviously not really into vampires. I will keep reading though, but there wasn't a whole lot of story line.

Things I like

Cook it on the grill with a squeeze of lemon and some salt and pepper.






I want one of these. Yummy.






Can't think of a better way to celebrate summer







Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Addicted


Ok, I will admit it. I am slightly addicted to scrapbooking. I haven't even done that much, but I wish I could do it all the time. I always wanted to be a scrapbooker, so I always kept everything, but I never actually finished anything. It started when I received Wedding shower and Baby shower scrapbooks from Dusten's mom. Those were the only ones I finished and they were small and covered only a short time period, so it wasn't that bad. Then Dusten's Aunt Brenda got me a baby scrapbook for Caroline's first year. She is a CM consultant and so in the end it's really all her fault. While I was on Maternity leave I actually had time to get all my pictures organized, CDs burned and work on her scrapbook. I only have 3 pages of her scrapbook left for the pictures I have printed. I have 7 more pages I want to do and then I will have to do it as the year goes on. I have learned that it is a lot easier to do things as they happen instead of stockpiling it to do all at one. Too bad I didn't have that figured out when I was in high school, because I have a whole tub full of stuff in the basement that is from high school. I just wish I had more time (and more money, of course) to do all the books I want to do. I'd like to do a scrapbook of D and I growing up--like a 2 page spread per year. One page for him and one page for me per year. This will take a long time, because I will have to go through all my pictures, scan them, and then print new copies. So many ideas, so little time...

Back to Work

I've been back to work for 3 weeks now (since March 22). It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I really needed to get out of the house, and I enjoy talking to adults. I cried the night before and the day of my first day back. Since then it's been fine though. I learned that I can't call to check on her. 2 of the 3 times I have called to check on her she has been screaming. That makes me want to cry. I don't know why, but I just lose control of myself. I feel like all I do now is take her home and put her to bed. But at least I have a couple hours to spend with her before she goes to bed each day.This also makes it hard for me to work overtime or do anything on a weeknight.
She has started sleeping in her own room and crib at night. (YAY!) Dusten wants her to stay in our room in her bassinett until she has to go to hers. It was really nice having her in our room, especially when she was waking up to feed in the middle of the night. I didn't even have to get out of bed, just lift her up in to ours. Saturday night I made a deal with him that she could come to our room if she woke up in the middle of the night or 5 or 6 in the morning if that's when she woke up. She slept til 7:30AM and I got the best night's sleep since she has been born. She has slept in her room ever since. I think we are the ones that wake her up. I have noticed that she will rarely wake up before we do. She'll wake up when the alarm goes off or I start walking around the house in the morning. Now I feel like I have a little more freedom to have the radio and lights on in our room after she goes to bed, and I don't have to worry about waking her up!
We had her 3 month pictures taken on Saturday. It was a disaster for the most part. She screamed most of the time and so we all had to get in position and then take her pacifier out real quick and try to get a picture before she started screaming. We finally got a picture of her smiling at the very end, which made it worth all the misery. Of course once they left she was a perfect angel the rest of the weekend. Some of her pictures are posted on Facebook, so check out our tagged photos if we are friends =)

Monday, April 5, 2010

Everything by Michael Buble

You're a falling star, you're the get away car.
You're the line in the sand when I go too far.
You're the swimming pool, on an August day.
And you're the perfect thing to say.
And you play it coy but it's kinda cute.
Ah, when you smile at me you know exactly what you do.
Baby don't pretend that you don't know it's true.'
cause you can see it when I look at you.

And in this crazy life, and through these crazy times
It's you, it's you, you make me sing.
You're every line, you're every word, you're everything.

You're a carousel, you're a wishing well,
And you light me up, when you ring my bell.
You're a mystery, you're from outer space,
You're every minute of my everyday.
And I can't believe, uh that I'm your man,
And I get to kiss you baby just because I can.
Whatever comes our way, ah we'll see it through,
And you know that's what our love can do.

So, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
So, la, la, la, la, la, la, la

And in this crazy life, and through these crazy times
It's you, it's you, you make me sing.
You're every line, you're every word, you're everything.
You're every song, and I sing along.
'Cause you're my everything.
Yeah, yeah

So, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
So, la, la, la, la, la, la, la
Study: Breastfeeding Saves Lives and Money
BY: Lolita Carrico First Published: Apr 04 AT 10.58 pm Last Updated: 10.59 pm

Putting aside the benefits breastfeeding offers to mom and baby, a new study also finds that breastfeeding saves our country significant amounts in health care. The study, published in the current issue of Pediatrics, found that if 90% of mothers breastfeed for the first six months of their baby’s lives, 900 babies would be saved from death each year and literally billions of dollars — $13 billion to be exact — would be saved.
The most significant finding, we think, is that the study clearly indicates that babies lives would be saved and some illnesses could be prevented by breastfeeding. The research found that stomach viruses, ear infections, asthma, juvenile diabetes, Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) and childhood leukemia can be prevented through breastfeeding in the early months of infancy. The study also indicated that breast milk is full of antibodies that help infants fight infections and that it also regulates insulin levels in the blood, which could make breast-fed babies less likely to develop diabetes and obesity in their futures.
“The health care system has got to be aware that breast-feeding makes a profound difference,” said Dr. Ruth Lawrence, heads of the American Academy of Pediatrics’ breast-feeding division.

from:http://mygloss.com/mama/2010/04/04/study-breastfeeding-saves-lives-and-money/

Saturday, March 27, 2010

What I'm Reading






The infant management concepts presented in this book have found favor with over two million parents and twice as many contented babies. On Becoming Babywise brings hope to the tired and bewildered parents looking for an alternative to sleepless nights and fussy babies. The Babywise Parent Directed Feeding concept has enough structure to bring security and order to your baby's world, yet enough flexibility to give mom freedom to respond to any need at any time. It teaches parents how to lovingly guide their baby's day rather than be guided or enslaved to the infant's unknown needs. The information contained within On Becoming Babywise is loaded with success. Comprehensive breast-feeding follow-up surveys spanning three countries, of mothers using the PDF method verify that as a result of the PDF concepts, 88% breast-feed, compared to the national average of only 54% (from the National Center for Health Statistics). Of these breast-feeding mothers, 80% of them breast-feed exclusively without a formula complement. And while 70% of our mothers are still breast-feeding after six months, the national average encourage to follow demand feeding without any guidelines is only 20%. The mean average time of breast-feeding for PDF moms is 33 1/2 weeks, well above the national average. Over 50% of PDF mothers extend their breast-feeding toward and well into the first year. Added to these statistics is another critical factor. The average breast-fed PDF baby sleeps continuously through night seven to eight hours between weeks seven and nine. Healthy sleep in infants is analogous to healthy growth and development. Find out for yourself why a world of parents and pediatricians utilize the concepts found in On Becoming Babywise.

With her unique blend of humor and empathy, Jo Frost gives parents the practical information and emotional support they need to embrace the challenge of their baby's first year. She offers clear guidance to help moms and dads become the joyful, confident parents that make a family--and little ones--truly flourish.
Packed with tips, practical information, and incredibly reassuring advice, this book tells you how to:
Sort out the essential equipment you need to buy before the birth
Babyproof your home
Set up for routines, feeding, sleeping, and development
Deal with premature and multiple births, as well as adopted babies
Make confident choices about going back to work, day care, and nannies
Cope with breastfeeding and weaning
Covering the key issues of the first twelve months, including growth charts, vaccinations, and first aid, Confident Baby Care is the perfect book for any new parent!

The Essential Reference on Vaccines! Are vaccines necessary? • What do they protect against? • How are they made? • Why are there so many shots? • Haven't they been found to be more dangerous than helpful? • Which type of polio vaccine is best? • What vaccines do my children and I need before traveling to another country? With all the vaccine choices available and all the vaccine controversy in the media, you have a lot of questions. You'll find the answers in Vaccines: What Every Parent Should Know, Revised Edition. This essential reference has been completely updated to include all the most up-to-date vaccine information: from why the rotavirus vaccine was recently suspended for use to when you might expect an AIDS vaccine to be available. Written in an accessible manner—and complete with schedules, recommendations, a travel section, and tips—this book helps you sort through all the confusing vaccination information to determine what is right for your family.